Life seems so uncertain. Sometimes feel like things fall into place, but at the very next moment feel the other way round. Want to do many things, but, at the same time disturbed by the things happening around for no reason. Though they don’t matter much we still feel disturbed and confused. Times change, Surroundings change, People change, Consequences change, why does it take “Time” for people to change according to the “Consequences that Surround People” in other words we take time to get adjusted to things around us. Now is it necessary to change as per Consequences? Or is it not?
The impression on person doesn’t stay long, is it because of the way the person is? Or is it because of the way you see the person? Well here goes a saying “We see things not as how they are, but as how we are”. So my question is answered. The only thing that matters is how “You See” the world. When an impression is set on a person you see the person keeping that impression in mind. But when the impression is changed, then dilemma arises as to was your “First Impression” right or the “ Impression” that you have now is right. By the time you come to a conclusion with your decision about the “ Impression” it again changes leading us to a conclusion that nothing in this universe is constant for ex: Living beings, their feelings so on & so forth. Now another question arises when nothing is constant,is it necessary to set an impression on someone?
Lets make one thing clear you setting an impression on a person changes only your view and it only effects the way you look at that person, but that doesn’t change an inch of the opposite person’s life or fate. For that matter it doesn’t change anything for that person as long your impression doesn’t matter to them. The problem starts once when it matters. When it matters, it matters “BIG TIME”. Here goes one more saying “Be who you are and say what you feel: because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”, so just do the same even though sometimes being who you are and saying what you feel is not considered wise as it might cause some differences. How ever changing your above thought as per situation is good for some situations, people and also relationships. In present day technology everything happens so fast and everything changes so fast. Hence to match pace with technology and time we have to move fast and change fast as per “Consequences that Surround Us”.
The impression on person doesn’t stay long, is it because of the way the person is? Or is it because of the way you see the person? Well here goes a saying “We see things not as how they are, but as how we are”. So my question is answered. The only thing that matters is how “You See” the world. When an impression is set on a person you see the person keeping that impression in mind. But when the impression is changed, then dilemma arises as to was your “First Impression” right or the “ Impression” that you have now is right. By the time you come to a conclusion with your decision about the “ Impression” it again changes leading us to a conclusion that nothing in this universe is constant for ex: Living beings, their feelings so on & so forth. Now another question arises when nothing is constant,is it necessary to set an impression on someone?
Lets make one thing clear you setting an impression on a person changes only your view and it only effects the way you look at that person, but that doesn’t change an inch of the opposite person’s life or fate. For that matter it doesn’t change anything for that person as long your impression doesn’t matter to them. The problem starts once when it matters. When it matters, it matters “BIG TIME”. Here goes one more saying “Be who you are and say what you feel: because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”, so just do the same even though sometimes being who you are and saying what you feel is not considered wise as it might cause some differences. How ever changing your above thought as per situation is good for some situations, people and also relationships. In present day technology everything happens so fast and everything changes so fast. Hence to match pace with technology and time we have to move fast and change fast as per “Consequences that Surround Us”.
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I like the thought - Definitely thought provoking.
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